Born in New Zealand, raised in Hawaii and KIA Panama “Operation Just Cause”
In the early morning hours of 20 December 1989, Chris Tilghman was killed in action leading his fellow SEALS in combat.
BM1 Chris Tilghman was posthumously awarded the Bronze Star with Distinguishing Device for valor.
Chris was an animal lover, he once owned 10 cats. He also loved surfing, skiing, bowling and collecting old piggy banks.
NCTS Guam
Anna was a shining light for many. She was always willing to help her fellow Sailor; community was very important to her. She volunteered at least every other week in some service to her community, from reading to children to running marathons. The Navy lost a true heroine with which many looked up to for guidance and inspiration. Her loss forever changed me. – Written by Rouen Sterling, Gold Star Spouse
Dear Commander Douglas "Dorothy" Morea, For almost 24 years, you successfully and humbly served your country as an officer in the US Navy. You were often called on to put your life on the line to keep all of us free and safe. We are proud to say that you did so without second thoughts or regrets. You are an inspiration to all the men and women who served with you as well as for those who will follow. The ride you took us on was awe inspiring and we are grateful to have been a part of it. Rest in peace, you will always be in our thoughts. Love, The Morea Family
Jaden was a singer, a dancer, musician, and an all-around goofball. Jaden enjoyed a variety of activities, both independently and with others, helping form his identity, as well as lifelong bonds and memories. He loved ping-pong, bowling, board games, etc. When it came to sports, Jaden did not discriminate, playing soccer, baseball, basketball, and football. He departed for boot camp followed by training in his chosen specialty of Master-At-Arms, while stationed in Guantanamo Bay, Cuba, he garnered recognition and respect as a result of his sense of dedication and service. Of all his accomplishments, though, I have no doubt, Jaden took the most pride in his marriage to Jo’Niyah, and the birth of their daughter Lay’Lani. Jaden was a lover, not a fighter, despite his shenanigans physical in nature. From a young age, he expressed a desire for the world to be better. Jaden was good.
This marks year 20 for us. Otter was 23. As I write this, tears come quickly to my eyes as I consider the day I was told; the last moments I saw my son, had the last hug and my last touch, wrapping my arms around the wool blanket which held his remains. So many wonderful people have continued to remember and honor him through these years in their own ways, which warms my heart but also shows what an incredible man he was to so many. I always thought it was because he loved me that he was so kind and thoughtful. I see through those people’s eyes how remarkable he truly was in his kindness, friendship and love for others. Otter was always caring, smiling, trying to make those around him laugh. He was willing to get up and go to enjoy life and experiences with anyone who asked. Otter was adventurous, fun living and had that quirky smile which always made those around him smile right back. Even though some days are still really rough 20 years later, still trying to figure out this new path of life, I am lucky, grateful and honored to be called Otter’s mom. Forever and a day, Love you, Otter.
Thank you very much for everything Erick it was a pleasure to meet you in person, I hope that we are able to maintain communication with the Navy Gold Star program that represents so much satisfaction and happiness for us to unite with other families. Hugs
Mrs. Jackson, you're such a blessing. We don't feel forgotten after our loss anymore. We greatly appreciate the moral support you provided to us. Thank you very much for all you do. Carol & Andrea
We were very happy to see Gold Star Navy in the Resource Room at the Snowball Express in Dallas Texas. Rufus and Stephanie provided valuable information and also helped in the event. Thank you for being there for us.
Thanks Sabrina for your greatful assistance in obtaining gold star pins for me and my family. We do appreciate your hard work in making this possible.
As a survivor of a military serviceman, I'm so pleased for all of you in supporting and caring for those who have lost their love ones like mine. Your kindness and cooperation is being appreciated.
Susanna, thanks for all you do for the Gold Star Families. . .encouraging Dolores to submit a tribute for our son Rene was just another example of how you are always reaching out to care for and encourage family members to remember and celebrate the lives of their loved ones.Thank you! Bill & Dolores
'This was a great experience for me. I am so glad I did it. I appreciate all of the work and coordination from everyone involved. Thanks for your program. It meant a lot to me and my husband. We were taken on a tour of the hanger, meet some of the men now in the squadron, and had a very nice time. Thank you very much Sandra.'
Patricia you are perfect for the job you do with the Gold Star Families. Talking to you over the phone felt like I have known you before and meeting you in person validate my feelings. After almost 14 years it means something special to meet other parents and families who have walked our path and the others who are now on that long painful journey our prayers are with all to find comfort.Gold Star Mom and Dad, Maryland
